Suffice to say I was disappointed and felt the interviewer had not really understood… Attractive Professionals have not taken my complaint seriously, and they certainly do not adhere to the Association of British Introduction Agencies’ Code of Conduct. This agency is not an online Dating Service, I have selected that category because there isn’t a category for Introduction Agencies.

I never ever thought ageism would be an issue, I thought it was an imagined thing. I still believe, however, in my weird optimism that out there is someone for me…someone at a similar age who can appreciate me and whom I can appreciate. In the meantime, I’m out there living my life to the fullest I’ve ever lived.

But younger men have taken note of the fate of their fathers, brothers and uncles at the hands of their wives and their allies in divorce court…and they want no part of it. I really hope you find someone who will respect you and value you for who you are. I am a woman, and sex has always been “at the core” of my interest in a relationship with a man.

This isn’t one or two, IT’S THE MAJORITY with this bad behaviour in some form or other. I had one woman who rescheduled a first date three times. On the last time I told her to forget it and she was stunned. I have read a lot here tonight, lots of different viewpoints, all educating. I had plans for our future together, I am now making plans for my future alone, spending more time with my daughters and with friends.

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Looking back, I was learning to breathe again. I became a widower in 2008 after nearly 20 years of marriage to my same age partner. She died just after our 50th birthday. We had sons ages 14 and 16 in the home.

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We were both very happy in that regard. We only parted because a heart attack claimed his life after suffering for many years with medical problems. Jack……I am sorry this has happened to you. I don’t think you are asking for anything unreasonable, and I can’t understand the concept of a woman loving you but she doesn’t want to be intimate. Seems like a contradiction and very immature on her part. Percentage-wise I think there are a lot more risk taking men than women.

Now being so cautious and not having much to bring to the table keeps me out of the dating scene. Basically I have been financially devastated and this Covid didn’t help much So my question is would men look down on a situation as mine. Some of my friends started to be grandma, which is nice but we don’t connect as much.I started to get on dating site and most people who contact me are much older than I am, some are my dad’s age. Thank you for being yourself and giving hope for the rest if us, who are willing to stay themselves despite everything else. Do you teach classes on how to age with dignity? All packages include 12 months of unlimited dating and 2 months of hold time, which allows you to temporarily freeze your membership.

‘She asked a lot of questions and listened very intently so I thought yes, this must be the NLP. She asked me where I saw myself in two years’ time and I said married. The businesswoman was happy to pay a hefty joining fee of £690 – in addition to a monthly subscription of £90 – because she was promised dates with only the most eligible men. Having tried internet dating and found it too hit-and-miss, she turned to one of the new breed of ‘boutique’ dating clubs, promising a bespoke service for busy high-flyers. By bringing these singles collectively, Ukraine Brides department provides stimulated many happily-ever-after tales and motivated singles to cross borders to find their particular spirit mates.

Tom, I have read both of your posts and I am sorry for what you have been through. I am also sorry that being female I represent a population of selfish, self centered people. This entire situation when viewed as a whole is very sad and discouraging. You dudes think you are hot stuff, but young women don’t want anything to do with you when they can find a hot man their own age.

As for women their own age, they confess that those women “look older than I feel.” I think to myself, “Then don’t look in the mirror, bro’.” Let’s be real. There’s a reason why physically attractive women on these so-called dating sites can demand a man years younger than them! No one, male or female, let’s say over the age of 40, who has worked hard (i.e. diet & exercise) to stay physically fit and reasonably attractive is going to want to pair up with someone who has not. OK, I am a woman in her 50s and I am on the dating sites and going to multiple meetups, I have been asked out my men my age but man! They are either overweight, have really bad teeth, or physical limitations like a bad knee. The men I want to pursue are handsome, fit, and financially secure.


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